How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Girls

Have you ever felt uneasy or insecure?

God made each person unique, and women are no exception. God has poured a variety of skills, dispositions, birthrights, and upbringings. As a result, no two people are alike in terms of appearance, upbringing, parents, or siblings.

As such, our journey is entirely different. My life will not resemble yours in any way.If you dealt with insecurity you can easily feel like you're better compared to others, criticize them and bully others.

When I started to feel insecure, it resulted  in feelings of comparison and pride.  There are several paths one can take when dealing insecurity. Ultimately, this might end in gossiping, pride, boastfulness, low self-esteem, and jealousy.

I have found that individuals who lack self-confidence tend to present themselves in a distinct manner. The root of everyone's insecurity varies, stemming from different causes.

1.Victimized Criticism

2.Never had enough (money, bad upbringing)

3.They were compared to friends and siblings.

4.Rejected or left behind

5. Parents and authority figures

I want to work with you guys to help you understand where it comes from. You won't be able to live up to your full potential if you don't. Insecurities can  grow and wreck lives in their own manner. ruin your career, friends, family, and relationships. You can't pretend that it's not there. People are able to detect insecurity. Those who lack confidence tend to act insecurely. People are going to know. just because it's not being said aloud.

In Romans 9:21 according to the NIV translation, "Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use"?

While we are all unique, God selectively picks individuals for specific tasks. No one has the right to question God's choices. This applies to everything: presents, cash, clothing, loved ones, friends, etc. God owns everything and permits everything to occur, so when you question why someone has a particular life, wealth, or favor in yours, keep that in mind.

But before you start to feel insecure or compare, keep in mind God's favor, blessings for your own life. 

How to Become More Secure in your Identity

1. Spend time with Jesus through prayer. reading the bible, and worship. 

2.  express your gratitude to him by writing down three things each day. 

3. See Jesus as the person you wish to become; he is all-powerful, well-organized, and disciplined. You do not need to compare/envy man. Ask Jesus for help. He has the all qualities you need.

4. Be a better person than you were the day before. I've been picturing my future self lately, both in terms of appearance and personality. That has greatly motivated and inspired me. to be the version perceived by God 

5. Keep in mind that your mission on earth is to glorify God and make use of the gifts He has given you. Nobody can use your gifts for you. 

6. Every day, give yourself encouragement and review scripture.

7. Refrain from letting social media, music, people, expectations, norms, and beauty standards determine who you should be. Every day, society dictates to us how we should appear.  Everyone wants to be slender one day, then everyone wants big lips and butts the next. Do you not want to look like you, not like everyone else?